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		<title>Latest Forum Topics</title>
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			<title>Site map for new members and even old ;)</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1049/site-map-for-new-members-and-even-old/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[On the top of each page Y/you have the MFDS tool bar.<br /><br />Y/you have Y/your dashboard which is Y/your main MFDS page where you see your groups  that you ...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[On the top of each page Y/you have the MFDS tool bar.<br /><br />Y/you have Y/your dashboard which is Y/your main MFDS page where you see your groups  that you belong too on the left hand side of the page,middle of the page you will see comments from other members as well as anything you write and on the right hand side you have  birthday box of members and the shout box that can be utilized by all.<br /><br />After the dashboard button you have the friends button( I really dont need to explain what that is lol)<br /><br />After the friends button you have the members button.Underneath  the search button you will have advanced settings and photos of the featured members( featured members are gold and life time members only).On the left hand side of that you will find a search button for members, put in your criteria and search.The photos in the middle of the page are of recent members that signed in.<br /><br />After the members button you have  the page button which is the Groups section, any member may join the groups and Only paid members are able to make groups(silver,gold and lifetime).Some of  the groups are private and persona groups so make sure to ask the creator of group to join and the name of the group you wish to join.<br /><br />After the pages button you have the blogs button,Only paying members bronze,silver,gold and platinum can post blogs.One blog per Lady and boy within a 24 hour period.We like all Our members to be seen and read.<br /><br />After the blogs button you have the photos button.Again Only paid members can post galleries how ever basic account profile pictures will appear in the gallery, all we ask is that basic accounts dont abuse this and change their pictures constantly because it will end up having  you account banned.<br /><br />After the photos button you have the forums button.Weekly discussion,bday postins,sessions now,tribute porn amound a few other things to participate in.Basic accounts are not allowed to make forum topics  but can participate in all discussions.Paying members silver,gold and lifetime are allowed to post  forums, only thing we ask is that all topics are geared towards the site members and not centered on oneself unless its some one wishing another member happy birthday <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" /><br /><br />After the forum button you have the polls button,again only paying members may post polls, non paying members may participate in all polls.Again all we ask is that all polls are geared toward all site members not on yourself.<br /><br />After the polls button you have the videos button, again only paying members are allowed to post videos, they can be of any thing as long as their is no nudity.<br /><br />After the videos button quiz button, again only paying members may post on here but every one may answer them, all quizs are to be geared towards all members and not of one self.<br /><br />After the quiz button you have events, again only paying members may use this, you can either use the main button or use the button for events located above the birthday box on the left hand side of MFDS main page.<br /><br />After the events button you have music button, any members may upload music <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" /><br /><br />After the music button you have the marketplace.<br /><br /><br />After the marketplace button you have the apps button which doesnt need to be used by any member as of yet.<br /><br />Above the MFDS tool bar you have search button next to the search button you have your notifications button<br /><br />The first out of three is a little  person , this will inform you when you gave friends request.Next to the little person is email icon, this will let you know when you have site mail from other  members,basic accounts are limited email space, make sure you to clean out your inbox and sent box frequently or you will not receive any emails if boxs are full.Some members are nice and will let you know if your inbox is full.Next to the mail button you have a flag button, this is a comment notification button as well as letting you know if some one replied to a comment you made,poked you or commented on blogs you wrote,pictures and videos you posted.<br /><br />Further over on the  right is  the profile button and account settings button.<br /><br />Under the profile button you have  a drop down menu of 4 buttons, My profile  so you can view your own profile,edit profile so you can edit profile,edit profile picture(make sure your pictures are not too big or they wont load),customize profile with bgs and colors( basic accounts are not allowed to use personal pictures as back grounds paying members are).<br /><br />Next to the profile button you have account settings, this also has a little drop down menu where you can edit your accounts setting and privacy settings.<br /><br />After the MFDS tool bar you will see your user name followed by activity points( you get points by participating in forums ,comments  ect and can be used for bronze membership).After the activity button yo have a membership button that lets you know what membership you are, you can click as well to upgrade besides using the subscribe button located at the bottom of all pages,if you have issues with the buttons contact Admin GL or ExquisiteGoddessArrion for help in this matter.Next to the membership button you have edit profile which is another way to edit it and next to that is your profile views <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" /><br /><br />For the difference in memberships and what they entail till We get a page up contact Admin GL or ExquisiteGoddessArrion.<br /><br />We are working on a chat room once again please be patient it will be up soon <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" /><br /><br />If any one has any questions Ask Admin GL.ExquisiteGoddessArrion,GoddessAmber and GoddessLeah for help <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" />]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 18 May 2012 14:33:46 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA["Mama" Bella speaks - I think it is time we really think about this!]]></title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1048/quot-mama-quot-bella-speaks-i-think-it-is-time-we-really-think-about-this/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Over the years I have been the Teacher, Preacher, "Mama type" and many more things in the communities across the internet. For some reason no matter h...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Over the years I have been the Teacher, Preacher, "Mama type" and many more things in the communities across the internet. For some reason no matter how hard I try it always ends up coming down to this. We need a reminder of something that perhaps we have all forgotten and in some cases never really seen clearly. <br /><br />Being the resident "know it all" as some have titled me over the years isn't always comfortable, but someone needs to stick their neck out for the greater good. So here I am again, about to give you my personal thoughts and hope to make you think for yourself. Some of you will disagree, others will agree and a third kind won't care less what I think. All that is fine and even encouraged in a community of individuals. That leads me directly into the topic of this post. <br /><br />Community and my concerns about it. <br /><br />As a community we are a meeting place of mature individuals from all over the globe, with different believes, character trades, experience levels, outlooks, fetishes, languages, and more. We won't always agree on everything, that is impossible, but we can agree to disagree. <br /><br />One of most important things for a community to function is for ALL it's members no matter what gender they are to feel comfortable in voicing their opinions and desires, safe from discrimination or unwanted "abuse", safe from being mobbed the moment they join, and appreciated for the contributions to the community. <br /><br />A community is a sharing, meeting and learning place for ALL involved. Each individual Member is valuable for this, no matter who they are. If you have not been banned from the community (which obviously you haven't been if you read this) your voice is just as important as any of ours. I will go further and point out that your voice is extremely important in growing, expanding and moving the community to greater levels. <br /><br />You are here for a reason and I hope it is save to assume that those reasons include finding the perfect D/s matches to make you happy, find new friends and learn from each other. In order to do that so we ALL need to do our part and participate. <br /><br />Over the last 2 weeks now I have gone on a blogging, posting, commenting etc Spree. I am sure some of you are sick of seeing my name pop up by now. Arrion and Amber have kept us entertained and excited with their geek love, updates, wallet draining opportunities and in general hilarity. Lisa finally rejoined us from time to time and boy it is great to have you back to posting woman. Cucky as always keeps as smirking with his puppy like adoration and love for his Goddess. As fantastic as that is (and I think it is awesome) it is also sad as hell. Why? Because we seem to be the only ones posting constantly and pushing the conversations forward. We are "hogging" the spotlight, not because we necessarily want to, but because nobody else is stepping up. The reality is that this is a community not our personal websites. I know I come on here in order to see what others are up to. I want to chuckle about some of the antics of the boys and gurls on here. I want to uh and ah about the experiences of my fellow Ladies. If I just want to read what I have to say or what Arrion and Amber, Cucky or Lisa have to say I can go to the individual blogs. With other words, we need more participation from the rest of you please. <br /><br />Now I know from experience that many of us are just busy as hell (I know I am a lot), others are shy or still so new that they fear to put their foot in their mouth. Others have had the experience of being doused for speaking up by others or have felt put on the spot. A third kind may not be very good at expressing their thoughts in writing. Others see this community just as an advertisement place via their profiles and honestly I think that is the worst of all of them. <br /><br />I want to point a few things out on that. <br /><br />#1 As a findom you need to be out and in the open. Just commenting on boys profiles isn't enough to get noticed. You also need to grow a really thick skin, because if you think a couple of sentences that you may have taken out of context are enough to make you shut up, you are in for a world of pain. Financial domination evenso it has become a huge fad these days is still looked down upon with scorn by many. It is still one of the most misunderstood and misinterpeted fetishes out there. You aren't going to win any popularity contest being a findom in the fetish world. Not unless you have charm, talent and skill beyond just taking money. Since you are online that includes learning how to express yourself in writing in a way that is exciting, amusing, thought provoking, and a true representation of who and what you are. That takes some getting used to for many, but you can learn how to do it with practice. <br /><br />#2 Financial domination is a fetish filled with smoke and mirrors. Not everything is what it appears to be. I can't talk for anyone else because I wouldn't assume to know what their life is like. For the newer ladies let me tell you something so. Just because a Mistress talks to a lot of boys, counsels a lot of boys or is in general always in the mouth of many boys, doesn't mean she gets all the boys. Over the years I have counseled, mentored and befriended a lot of boys. I have gained the respect of many boys as well. Yet with all that said and done, I am by far not the Mistress with the most boys on here. Just because a Mistress is involved a lot with boys, doesn't mean that they in the end opt to serve her. Trust me I have healed a lot of wounds, taught a lot of guys, just to be skipped over for someone else when it came to serving. Does that hurt at times? Sure it does, nobody likes to be used and bypassed, but that is part of being a Mistress - especially if you are part of a community. YOu have to give to receive. <br /><br />#3 When things are said in a generalized term it may not even have anything to do with anyone on here. Don't automatically assume it is about you. Ever so often we all need to vent and yes it can stick in the throats of some more sensitive Readers. In other cases thinks get a bit too snide even for my personal liking, but guess what that is part of expressing yourself and sometimes we all have an off day and don't realize how something sounds to someone else. Unless you are named, just ignore it. It has nothing to do with you. <br /><br />#4 If you aren't part of the solution don't bitch about it. You hate some women getting all the attention, I guess you need to put some effort in and put yourself out there. I remember a time when I would post a blog post and within an hour or two it was pushed down the line by other amazing Ladies and amusing boys posting their thoughts and more. Those were great times and I for one miss them. If you don't want to see just a select few Ladies getting all the attention, I suggest you start drawing some POSITIVE attention to yourself. You are amazing too right? So tell us about it! I want to know! I am curious Georgette!<br /><br />#5 We as a community can't sit here and expect to have a free ride. Sorry but it is not Arrion's and Lisa's job to pay for us to have a place to find new boys to receive our tributes from. It isn't their job to have to carry the financial burden of it all. If you are part of this community you need to be willing to chip in a little. That means pay for an upgraded account and USE all the features provided in it. That means boys stepping up and making a little contribution towards upgrades like the Chatroom we all want, a great layout again and more. Just sitting around and being squatters is really not cool. There is not reason that we each can't throw $10 into the pot from time to time. I Know for a fact that the  Owners always have turned around and put all the money they received from upgrades and the occassional "thank you" tributes from the boys into the site. If it was me personally and I had mostly freeloaders as Members I would have kicked some ass a long time ago, or would have shut it down. You get what you pay for. So if you don't pay in, don't bitch that you don't get what you want. Be useful. <br /><br />#6 We Mistresses get told all the time how perfect, amazing, wonderful blah blah we are. It takes a strong personality not to let that go to their heads. The bottom line so is that none of us are perfect and that we all need a little reminder that our attitudes towards each other could do with some spring cleaning. I am not exception to that rule by the way. There once was a Sisterhood of powerful women who stood beside each other and we were strong for it. Now we have little clicks (Yes I know I spelled that wrong sorry) instead, which often does more damange than good. There is an old saying that goes. A house united stands, a house devided falls. <br /><br />And that is where I will stop. Do we want to regain our community and make it once more one of the strongest and most respected on the internet, or do we want to continue to be less than we are. I think we have the potentional to regain our spot as Number 1, but it will take ALL of us to work together on that goal. Just remember one thing, you can't get anything out of nothing, so putting your effort in is in your best interest as well. <br /><br />HUgs and spanks <br />Goddess Bella Donna]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 17:05:56 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>GoddessBellaDonna</dc:creator>
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			<title>Weekly Discussion: Panty and Pantyhose fetish!</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1047/weekly-discussion-panty-and-pantyhose-fetish/</link>
			<description>Hello MFDS time to talk a bit about a couple very sensual fetish areas. Panty and Pantyhose fetish. I want to know from both sides if Panties and Pant...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello MFDS time to talk a bit about a couple very sensual fetish areas. Panty and Pantyhose fetish. I want to know from both sides if Panties and Pantyhose are one of your fetish interests and what exactly you find to sexy about it. <br />Ladies do you include them into your tease 'n denial sessions? <br />What are your favorite styles of Panties and/or Pantyhose?<br />What has been one of the funniest things you have ever happen to you personally that involved one or both?<br /><br />Boys are you a little panty or pantyhose freak?<br />Do you just worship them on women or do you wear them yourself?<br />What has been one of the most humiliating things you ever had to do involving one or both?<br /><br />I'll give my answers after I see the first 10 responses!]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 14 May 2012 14:44:18 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>GoddessBellaDonna</dc:creator>
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			<title>Happy Mothers Day:  May 13 2012</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1046/happy-mothers-day-may-13-2012/</link>
			<description>I am a big time supporter of financial dominants.  My support also includes with a special emphasis, supporting those financial dominants who also hap...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I am a big time supporter of financial dominants.  My support also includes with a special emphasis, supporting those financial dominants who also happen to be mothers.  <br /><br />Mothers Day is a good time to give the financial dominants who also happen to be mothers, a special recognition and a show of support.<br /><br />We also hope that those financial dominants who are mothers will reproduce even more.  For those who are financial dominants without any chillens as of yet,.  We hope you will decide to produce them soon.    And even more so, with your owned money slaves.  <br /><br />Happy Mothers Day.<br /><br />BTW.  I was just reminded,  Mothers Day:  May 13 2012 is a U.S Holiday.  Other nations may have alternate days to recognize Mothers.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2012 16:32:06 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[May Birthday's]]></title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1044/may-birthdays/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[If Y/your Epic Day is in May please post here.Ladies post your birthday wishes <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[If Y/your Epic Day is in May please post here.Ladies post your birthday wishes <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/smile.png" alt="Smile" title="Smile" title="v_middle" />]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2012 20:28:07 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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			<title>Happy Birthday Goddess Arrion!</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1043/happy-birthday-goddess-arrion/</link>
			<description>Please join me in wishing the beautiful, intelligent, sexy as hell, geeky, amazing, addicting and down right wonderful Goddess Arrion a wonderful happ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Please join me in wishing the beautiful, intelligent, sexy as hell, geeky, amazing, addicting and down right wonderful Goddess Arrion a wonderful happy Birthday. <br /><br />I hope your day will be filled with smiles, lots of presents, great conversations and much worship beautiful. I am as always blessed to call you my friend.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 14:13:25 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>GoddessBellaDonna</dc:creator>
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			<title><![CDATA[April Birthday's]]></title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1042/april-birthdays/</link>
			<description>If Y.your celebrating Y.your Bday this month Please post date and what you would like for your Bday Smile</description>
			<content:encoded>If Y.your celebrating Y.your Bday this month Please post date and what you would like for your Bday Smile</content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2012 21:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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			<title>Girls on Film: Femdom/Findom Clips</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1040/girls-on-film-femdom-findom-clips/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[The subject of femdom/findom clips always inspires a lively discussion; I&#8217;m hoping this one is no different.<br /><br />I never pursued clip production for vari...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[The subject of femdom/findom clips always inspires a lively discussion; I&#8217;m hoping this one is no different.<br /><br />I never pursued clip production for various reasons but, I recognize why it&#8217;s the go to method of money making and sub breaking. Filming, editing, and uploading clips has got to be time consuming. However, its probably a lot less stressful than using messengers in an attempt to separate the wheat from the chaff. Clips also seem like a good idea for subs who thrive when exposed to a domme&#8217;s voice and image. <br /><br />The downside of making it easy for anyone to click and purchase a piece of you is, its easy for customers to forget their place. I often see women reiterating the difference between service and sales. Also, dommes who take the clips route are sometimes mistaken for puppets who will film anything for a buck. <br /><br />If you have an opinion on clips, please share.<br /><br /><b>Dommes:</b><br /><br /><b>Do you make clips? Why or why not?<br />Do you find clips to be an effective training tool?<br />Has clip production brought you the type of attention you enjoy?</b><br /> <br /><b>Subs:</b><br /><b>Do you buy clips? Why or why not? <br />Do you find clips to be an effective training tool?<br />Do you reach out to dommes you&#8217;ve purchased clips from? Why or why not?</b>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2012 21:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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			<title>Dooms Day Prepping...</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1039/dooms-day-prepping/</link>
			<description>For some reason, this topic has come up in our home in the past week.  I saw my first episode of Doomsday prepping, and honestly, there are things the...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[For some reason, this topic has come up in our home in the past week.  I saw my first episode of Doomsday prepping, and honestly, there are things these people were doing that I have been doing for years, but never realized it.  <br /><br />One thing I started looking into since this episode, is the bug out bag. Much bigger then what I have been doing for my family, and seems to cover a lot of things.<br /><br />Tell me what you think of prepping, and if you do it, how long have you been doing it?  What do you cover? financial, nuclear etc?<br /><br />I almost feel bad that we gave up the mountain property in TN.. <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/unhappy.png" alt="Unhappy" title="Unhappy" title="v_middle" />  great price and would have made a GREAT location for problems. uggg... doubt Ill get that deal again.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 20 Mar 2012 14:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>Admin_GL</dc:creator>
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			<title>How many take this seriously?</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1037/how-many-take-this-seriously/</link>
			<description>Ive been around in the online scene since 2002.Ive seen many come and go .Ive been running and co owning this site with Admin Gl since 2007 in that ti...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Ive been around in the online scene since 2002.Ive seen many come and go .Ive been running and co owning this site with Admin Gl since 2007 in that time I've come to realize I seriously have a pet peeve with boy's  and woman to tend to think this is easy and or like a  part time job to make end's meet  or a quicky wank fest(meaning log in for a week then disappear for a cple months then come back for a week or holidays then disappear again) and then complain there is no good subs  or cant find a domme when they haven't even been active or put themselves out there on their profiles or in the community.<br />Now I more than understand real life get's in the way so no need to interject well some have school and families  and jobs so the cant log in as much( then one shouldn't own subs or look for ownership if they cant put in the time), I raise a daughter and have a family like so many others on here but I still manage to make time for bdsm, its something I enjoy ,it's a outlet for Me, I do real time on occasion which yes is way better than online but I still love online and take it just as seriously .<br />How do you Ladies and boys feel about people that dont take this seriously and then complain there are no good boys or Dommes when they are rarely around, have  barely any info on  themselves  and come and go every cple  months ?<br />PS... keep in mind before some panties wrinkle up in some puckered  butts this isn't Me ragging on people with Lives ( I do have one of those) or have families and jobs or get ill.This is about those subs and woman who have never  been active complaining about dommes and subs.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2012 09:41:08 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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			<title>Happy Birthday</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1034/happy-birthday/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Happy Birthday Lisa .We have known each other going 12 year's  and each year get's more and more amusing lol.<br /><br />May Your day be filled with pressies,ca...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Happy Birthday Lisa .We have known each other going 12 year's  and each year get's more and more amusing lol.<br /><br />May Your day be filled with pressies,cake,pressies,money and  more cake because You  deserve it.<br /><br />I swear when We are fifty We are celebrating Our Birthdays together <img src="http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/file/pic/emoticon/default/wink.png" alt="Wink" title="Wink" title="v_middle" /> Love You ton's.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sun, 11 Mar 2012 06:55:16 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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			<title>FYI FAQ and TOS</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1032/fyi-faq-and-tos/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[I put together an FAQ ~ please post any questions or suggestions you have , thanks!<br /><br /><b>Who runs this site?</b><br /><br />Admin_GL and ExquisiteGoddessArri are the si...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[I put together an FAQ ~ please post any questions or suggestions you have , thanks!<br /><br /><b>Who runs this site?</b><br /><br />Admin_GL and ExquisiteGoddessArri are the site owners.  EbonyGoddessAmber and GoddessLeah are added Admin, not an owner.<br /><br /><b>I'm a domme who just joined, what do I need to do? <br /></b><br />You need to contact two out of the four Admin's to get  verified live on cam.  We do this via Yahoo Instant Messenger.  It is recommended that all ladies who need to be verified contact EbonyGoddessAmber and GoddessLeah  DO NOT contact Admin GL or AdminEGA (ExquisiteGoddessArrion)to cam verify.  You have 3 days maximum to get verified and if we do not hear from you by the 2nd day or you do not verify by the 3rd, your account will be banned until you do contact us to schedule an appointment to get verified and once verified, we reopen your account.Do not make another contact that account will be banned including Y/your ip.<br /><br /><br /><b>Do boys have to get verified, too?</b><br /><br />No, verification for subs is not mandatory.  If a sub is interested in becoming a verified member on this site it merely requires a tribute to be made to MFDS that would go towards site maintenance.Contact Admin GL or AdminEGA for this.<br /><br /><b>Do TV or CD Dommes get cam verified?</b><br /><br />Yes, absolutely.  Anyone who joins this site with the intent to financially dominate the sub members here will be cam verified.<br /><br /><br /><b>Is the site free to join?<br /></b><br />Yes, it is, however, we do have restricted use for basic account members.( rules subject to change )<br /><br /><b>What can I do if I'm a basic account member?<br /><br />  Basic accounts can access every area of the site including groups, forums, and the chatroom.( We are  working  on getting the chat room back up please be patient again).Paying members are allowed to post topics ...non paying members are not  but are allowed to participate in discussions etc.<br />Basic account members can decorate their profiles with scenery, patterns, or cartoons.  Please do not post content pics or personal videos unless you choose to upgrade. Music videos are fine.  Music players are fine.  You can design and post a profile that includes 1 photo (your profile pic), bio, interests, etc... no personal site links.blog links.photobucket or any other place you post pictures, no tribute buttons or nite flirt buttons.<br />You are allowed ONE picture that being the main profile picture.If you use arsty picture or any picture that is NOT  you, you are to post a disclaimer on your profile stating said profile picture is NOT you,We are firm believers in honesty and posting a picture that is NOT you and NOT stating so is dishonest and is not acceptable .<br /><br /><b>Why not any of those?  <br /></b><br />You're free to share your contact info via private email messages, we just ask that you don't post it on your profile since they are all linked to IMs.  If we allowed free advertising it wouldn't be fair to our members that do pay to advertise.<br /><br /><br /><b>What can I do if I upgrade?</b><br />Post multiple photos on your profile and in the gallery.  Post your email/IM contact info.  Post videos, Twitter info, Clips4Sale/Kinkbomb stores, and Niteflirt/TalkSugar call buttons.  Start public or private groups.  Blog on site and/or link to an offsite blog. Post links, banners, etc on your profile for your personal website.<br /><br /><br /><b>Is nudity allowed?</b><br /><br />No, not even in cartoon format.  No genitalia, no nipples, no bare asscrack thank you very much!<br /><br /><br /><b>Does my profile pic have to be of me?<br /></b><br />yes and no.. We cam verify all dommes on this site to ensure they are the woman in their photos should they choose to post one.  Photos of people other than yourself are not allowed unless it is a celebrity or otherwise recognizable figure or obviously clip art/cartoons,etc.  If you post a photo of someone other than yourself, you must state in your profile that it is not you in the photo.  We will not condone deceipt w/intent.  You may post a cartoon, animal, vegetable, or mineral if you like.  Just don't post anything illegal.<br /><br /><br /><b>What is the site blogging etiquette?</b><br /><br /><br />One blog per site member visible on the home page at all times.  We restrict this in order to give everyone fair exposure time.  Please either delete and repost or edit and add to your existing blog.<br />Please do not post &#42;gimme gimme&#42; blogs.  Feel free to tell the readers what you desire, but please pad it with some interesting tidbits, photos, details, etc etc so that it's not just a hit and run "gimme this I gotta go" type thing.  There is nothing wrong with that other than it has it's own home on the site which is the Treat Me To This forum where all site members can post. <br />The Sessions Available/On Cam Now forum is a great place for Dommes of any account level to post the day of availability.<br /><br /><br /><b>How do the forums work?</b><br />The forums are open to all site members.  We ask that you do not treat it as an avenue for advertisement (unless otherwise specified).  Please read the descriptions for each forum for any pertinent info.<br />When posting a new forum topic please be sure to check to see if  there is an existing one on the same subject line(upgraded members may only post topics all members may participate in discussions)  We prefer to revive threads and keep them rolling rather than post new ones when possible.<br /><br /><b>Can anyone make a poll?</b>  Yes!(rule may be subject to change) do not post personal interest poll or repeat polls they will be deleted.<br /><br /><br /><b>Can I copy someone else's poll, profile, blog, etc?</b><br />No.  Absolutely not.  We do not allow plagiarism on this site in any format.  It is a bannable offense.<br /><br /><b>Can I have more than one profile?</b><br /><br />No, absolutely not.  If you need your name changed, contact an Admin, and unless you are an upgraded member, there will be a fee.<br /><br /><b>I'm a new domme and I want to find a sub</b>? Should I just email all the members a form letter and see who bites?<br /><br />No, spam/mass emailing is not allowed on this site.  We do have a built in spam filter that will boot you if you spam.  This applies to all members.  Also, don't forget to read profiles, if a sub is Owned or Under Consideration, and you email/IM him for any reason other than telling him that his Owner's house is on fire, you will risk your account being banned.  We do not condone toestepping on this site and unless a boy's Owner has specifically told you it's ok to contact her boy, it's not allowed.  Boys should also note that if a sub is caught &#42;drama starting&#42; (purposely trying to bait a domme into contacting him) he , too, risks being banned.<br /><br />Amended by EGA.....Music Videos are allowed on profiles for all accounts, videos of oneself. or of your mistress on basic accounts is not allowed.<br /><br />Amended by EGA_,,,, I have changed the blogging rules... One may post another blog within A 24 hour period..but not less than 24 hours.<br /><br />When in chat please dont crawl up the boys asses  and ask them for tributes . There may be a few boy's on here who do tribute randomly and really just want to get a good one off and not really get to know the woman they are doing it with, but 80% of the boys wish to get to know a woman before t ribbing, and harassing them in chat. which by the way is a fear by many and why they do not come into chat, not Kool in My book, and then cussing them out and acting like a bitch when they wish to not trib you, suggest ya check yaself, you will never get subs that way, being a bitch is not dominant its nothing more that being a bitch, so keep that in mind when in chat, Act like a Lady, dont harass the boys and dont cuss them out.I get wind of everything, so just know if I see it happen again Ill ban you from chat for a month, that kind of behaviour is not acceptable.<br />Ive been deleting a lot of rude comments lately, let Me refresh your memory, We do not allow derogatory statements or rude comments on Any ones page, doing so not only gets your comment deleted but a warning( remember 3 strikes and your out) Theres two lists one for the Ladies and one for the boys to list such grievances,please act like adults in doing so and contact any of the 3 admins( Admin GL, Myself  and Mistress Pinky) for any issues, so We can help resolve them.<br />One last thing I wanted to touch on and its something that really annoys the 3 Admins. and its a rumor thats been going on  for quite some time but seems the newbies are passing it around on the site( along with some other amusing ones) that the Admins get all the boys. False. We put ourselves out there, We speak to everyone on the site just as everyone does and has the opportunity to do.We do not have some psychic  insight  that tells us which boys are the best boys on the site or who tributes the most ect ect .....Just as you Ladies have every opportunity to put yourselves out there to be worshiped and served the Admins do the same .We actually have more of a issue in getting boys then rest of you due to the fact We are owners and Admin on this site,the boys know they have to on their best behavior and set an example for the rest on this site and also know fucking up with US is something they are afraid to do because of this, So in being owners and Admin on this site its not always a blessing and We dont always get all the boys. Boys come to us Based on their knowledge of Us , how We present ourselves&#42;as the rest of you  have the opportunity to do so&#42; and also based  on Our experience. SO I really dont want to hear any more nonsense of how THE ADMINS get all the boys, its a load of padookie.<br />Thank you to those who abide by the site rules and carry themselves with pride in respect to those on this site.<br />xoxoxox<br />Last update on February 8, 1:24 am by ExquisiteGoddessArri.]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 01:13:09 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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			<title>Discussion of the week:  When will it return?</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1030/discussion-of-the-week-when-will-it-return/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[<b>I don't know about what others thought of the discussion of the week.  As for me, that was one of the best features of this site.  Even if some of the</>...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<b>I don't know about what others thought of the discussion of the week.  As for me, that was one of the best features of this site.  Even if some of the discussions were not always interesting at least it was a good place to read of others thoughts on various topics.  <br /><br />I was hoping to see a return of the discussion of the week.  So my question is for others:  When will the discussion of the week return?  </b>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 03:07:26 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>cashslavejd</dc:creator>
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			<title>Clips4sale</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1029/clips4sale/</link>
			<description><![CDATA[Hello beautiful ladies, I'm Lorena! <br />New to the site, & this is my first thread so if this has been answered before, or just doesn't belong in this ca...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Hello beautiful ladies, I'm Lorena! <br />New to the site, & this is my first thread so if this has been answered before, or just doesn't belong in this category;  sorry in advanced.<br /><br />Soooo, Clips4Sale....Very intrigued by it...... but I cant help but notice (And I'm sure you all notice as well) all of the "stores". Wow, How the heck does one stand out?  <br /><br />But seriously, any tips on just getting started?  I'm pretty sure about what content I will be posting I'm more just wondering how the payouts are, (reasonable?) and if there are any other similar websites that might even be better? I am aware of some other ones but is it worth it to set up a store for EVERY single website ? <br /><br />Any other info would be greatly appreciated! Thanks ladies & have a great night!]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 01:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>GoddessLorena</dc:creator>
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			<title>To all members</title>
			<link>http://myfinancialdommespace.com/main/forum/thread/1027/to-all-members/</link>
			<description>Please dont start freaking out over Your/your memberships.We do know who all  was gold and who had re paying memberships.A few things were not carried...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Please dont start freaking out over Your/your memberships.We do know who all  was gold and who had re paying memberships.A few things were not carried over with the move of the data of the site and We are working on fixing it as well as other issues.<br />Thank you for Your/your patience. Admin GL and Admin EGA]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:17:08 +0000</pubDate>
			<dc:creator>ExquisiteGoddessArrion</dc:creator>
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