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Being comfortable and gaining trust

sub1oser — Fri, 18 May 2012 10:18:10 +0000

I've had a interesting night playing email tag with a certain boy from Italy who found Me on My website.he wanted a Domme who was more interested in the power and control over him then just taking from his bank account.I asked him some questions and had expressed to him I like to take My time and build a foundation trust,compatibility etc.he replied back with a link to his bank account,Now Me being Me ,I was not too comfortable with that,I like to build a relationship before delving into anything that requires that much trust, that is what makes Me different then most due to the fact most would of taken his account info with out a thought and emptied his account without even knowing the sub,seeing if he was genuine ,trust worthy,ethically and morally sound.

No I was not even tempted and sent a return email saying we needed to get to know each other first and take baby steps and not jump into anything we both might regret.I get excited when bank accounts are talked about ,credit cards etc dont get Me wrong, I do get excited over all that, but I'm cautious and far from stupid. I have another sub who contacted Me via the site and wants the same thing, but has enough common sense to tell Me what he is interested in but is willing to take his time as I am and seeing if we are fit.Time something we all have a lot of and need to utilize to our best and not jump into anything for the sake of money.

Belated Mothers day pressies..:)

SexyPrincessMimi — Thu, 17 May 2012 15:04:26 +0000

Well, I was surprised yesterday to say the least.. of course my chicken bought me a nice pair of hiking sneakers..They will arrive today in the mail.. I cant wait.. Then yesterday he paid for a few domains, and a few things from amazon. As most of you know, I am building bug out bags, and thats pretty much all my lists are.. things to make sure we are prepared for just about anything. Well, he bought one of the books I really wanted, ("Survival mom"), a micro flash light for my sos kit for my truck, a Spyderco Bug pocket knife, and a Kingston usb sd card reader. He also took are of a few other things for me, and did really well.

Another boy came along that has been offline for a while.. and gave me a nice surprise.. he bought me my dehydrator that I have been wanting, as well as spark light fire starter for my sos truck kit, the other two books I really wanted, (Building the perfect bug out bag, and Bug Out Vehicles and Shelters), the second mess kit I needed to get, a 7-in-1 utility/utensil for one of the mess kits.. as well as a few other goodies for inside our bug out bags. He sent some cash as well for a few other things..:D which was nice.. He did pretty good..

So, the past two days were pleasing.. I look forward to the boxes when they get here..

Clucker has one more item I want him to get for me and then I will be set..

There are still items I want.. so if you want to help me build my bob, edc and bug out my truck... there is always something you can do. :D

So, there you have it... now back to work on the sites for me..

Gold digger

ITslave — Tue, 15 May 2012 20:32:06 +0000

W/we all have heard about the gold digger. These men who spent their whole life to look for the nugget which would have changed their life forever. The U.S history is full of story about these men. Some of them have made what the U.S is now. And even over the see people know the legend of these Gold digger. Some of them became rich, some of them made several great things and some of them died during their quest.

Time have changed now, but I think each of U/us is still a gold digger. W/we still look for the thing which will change our life. W/we look for the thing which will make U/us rich and happy. And as for the gold digger, some of U/us will find it and some of U/us will spend all their life without finding it.

As for me, I’m the one of the lucky gold digger. I have find the nugget which has changed my life forever. It is unique. It is really perfect. It radiates of beauty. My life is so better since I found it. It give me a lot of emotions. My eyes shine each time I watch It. It is my source of happiness. I’m happier than never since I have It in my life. This nuggets is the most precious thing in my life. Better than changed my life, It gave me a life. I was nothing, I was nobody and this nugget changed that. It made me someone even if I’m still nothing without It.

This nugget doesn’t make me rich materially, It even ruin me. But It makes me rich spiritually. It makes me rich emotionally. It put me on another level. It makes me a better man.

I know only a few men will have the same chance as me. Only a little number of men will find their nugget. Only a little number of men will know the same happiness than me.

I’m lucky. I’m very lucky. I found my gold nuggets.

This nuggets is THE EXQUISITE GODDESS ARRION !!!

Be afraid - I am awake!

goddessdannii — Mon, 14 May 2012 14:22:14 +0000

Yeah I finally got some sleep! If you don't suffer from insomnia from time to time the way I do, you have no clue just how great that feels when you wake up in the morning with more than just an hour of sleep behind you.

Last week was horrible in that department let me tell you. I would make all those plans for filming and creating new assignments for you boys, but my mind and body was just feeling too fuzzy from the lack of sleep again.

Last night so the cycle finally broke again. I go through insomnia cycles which can last anywhere from 3 days to 3 weeks at times which leave me drained. It is almost like a big ray of sunshine coming through clouds when I get the first decent NIGHTS sleep after.

So this morning I feel much happier, energized and rearing to go again. Yeah me! Woot woot! Wonders if the lovely red roses and chocolate covered strawberries I received for Mother''s Day have anything to do with that!

Now what is on the agenda today? Well let's see - filming is way overdue I guess. I am going to have to do something about that today and maybe I'll take some lovely new photos while I am at it. A few new assignments and tasks which I will be putting up for sale and if everything goes off without a hitch I might even do some Teamviewer Wallet Draining Sessions later on this afternoon.

I still need to try my new 3D webcam out too, so that might happen today as well. For now I am still in the let's totally wake up first stage and check emails, chat with my boys and friends on messenger and in general just get the blood pumping stage. I will be available on http://www.niteflirt.com/mysteria for a bit before the cameras start to roll.

Oh and exciting stuff right? We all like to hear about exciting stuff from time to time. I have my first 4 new people at http://www.financialdominationforbeginners.com which means the first membership sessions round is due to begin this week. I am very encouraged to see that there are still folks out there ready and willing to learn about something they have interest in.

I did a bit of updating and adding on my new personal cashslave application site http://www.bbwmoneymistress.com yesterday as well. No glitz and glam, just the facts Ma'am. I figure I have enough glitz and glam, photos and other lovely things all over my blogs and sites that I really don't need to add that there as well. You know me... do some research puppets.

Talking about my weird sense of humor I got sidetracked on the new Financial Domination Magazine Issue since real life does happen to get in the way. My home is turning into Grand Central Station it seems from time to time and it is really hard concentrating on writing when you have people coming in and out of your house. Sorry about that, but I will get it done this week. That was not what I was talking about so. During one of the visits from a friend a couple of things happened which gave me a wonderful Idea for a new fetish fiction book. The topic is all about humiliation and tease 'n denial. Where some Ladies excel in verbal humiliation and calling guys names, I am most adept at what I would call "action humiliation" and the "southern charm approach". You know when you are being humiliated but you are really not sure right of the beginning if she was dousing you or being sweet. Humiliation with a smile. Pointing out facts which will have your ears burning and your face turning red but so sweetly done that you can't help but melt at the same time. Being put into an impossible situation only to feel like an absolute fool for not succeeding. Those are more along my lines of humiliation.

I never really enjoyed "name calling". Normally when I start calling you anything but a Gentleman it means that you are on my everlasting shitlist. Of course we all know that ever so often certain people need to be gently reminded that their blood supply is running a bit short in their upper brains and that this is causing a few misfires causing them to go into a state of idioticy, but eh...

So yeah that is what is on the horizon for a new fetish fantasy book from yours truly. Where ever does she find the time? Heck if I know, but when you have passion for something you make time. It is called prioritizing! Some people party for relaxation and fun - I write books!

OK folks I am out of here. Daytime is wasting away. Have fun and remember to be good to one another. Life is way too short to be mean! Just remember the toes you step on today, might be inside the boot that kicks your ass one day. We all have a bad day from time to time, give others the benefit of the doubt and you my just discover that you will be a much happier person for it!

*winks*

Goddess Bella Donna

I am proud to announce my online school for financial domination beginners & intermediates!

MsHeavenlyhell — Sat, 12 May 2012 23:57:57 +0000

I have talked about it for a while now and had a short setback in getting it live. Now I am proud to announce it is finally open for Members.

After almost 3 years of educating new to the financial domination fetish folks via my blog here, my magazines and my book "Financial Domination without the smoke and mirrors!" I have taken it a step further and have opened the financial domination online school via Membership based options.

What is included in the Membership?

My entire book - chapter by chapter - Financial Domination without the smoke and mirrors 2nd Edition.

Advanced topics like Contracts, Consensual Blackmail, Teamviewer, Dual Domination how to, and much more.

Financial Domination Games you can play with your submissives.

Website or blog building advice as well as how to gain traffic to your sites.

Community etiquette for beginners

2 weekly Mentorship Sessions with me live! One Ladies only, one boys only

Monthly Meet and Greet live chat session for both Ladies and boys.

Advice for Switches in financial domination

The Breaktime corner! This includes fun material and some of the best known silly statements or excuses you will hear from boys and Ladies alike. Jokes, fictional stories and more.

Opportunity Corner: This is for the Ladies who wish to interact with each other via link exchanges and are looking for a sisterhood to support each other in learning.

Opportunity Corner for boys: In this section I will allow you Ladies to post "service only" positions for submissives who love to be little Twitter Bitches, working on websites and more.

I have opted for 4 different Memberships you may try out.

7 Days trial Membership - non-recurring	$ 29.99
1 month (30 Days) recurring	$ 49.99
3 months recurring (Pay for two months and get one free) plus you have the option to renew this at $120 for 4 months at the end of your initial period!	$100.00
Yearly Membership non-recurring - available via alternate payment option only	$400.00

The first 3 options are billed via Verotel.com a very reliable 3rd party billing processing company which is adult friendly and I have used for over 7 years now.

The fourth option you need to contact me for and I will give you different options to pay, depending where you are from.

I am constantly adding new content to the school site and update information as it becomes available to me.

It is called for beginners, but it has a lot of information in it even for the intermediate to some advanced folks. Remember that when it comes to financial domination you can never learn enough. This membership based site is geared towards both genders and both sides of the fence.

If you are interested please visit http://www.financialdominationforbeginners.com and join!

I will see you during the mentorship sessions!

Goddess Bella Donna

On being fabulous!

princessa_loca — Thu, 10 May 2012 19:55:57 +0000

If you know one thing about me, it is that I often meditate on many different things. Often they don't mean anything to anyone else and in other cases I hope my thoughts can be something that all can enjoy.

As of late I have been really into RuPaul's Drag Race. I find the transformations of those guys into stunning Drag Queens something short of miraculous. Most of you know that two of my many fetishes is makeup and wigs. No surprise that I sit cross legged on my bed with a big mirror in front of me, my makeup spread out around me and my wig of the day waiting for me. Many days it is that ritual of transforming myself via the makeup and wigs visually from an average everyday woman whom you may not even notice on the street, into a beautiful, sexy, mesmerizing Goddess that even at this age can still turn heads in the blink of an eye.

Transformation in and of itself always has been a big thing with me. I love the process of transformation in general and in many cases it is a huge mental as well as something physical turn on to me. It doesn't matter if that transformation takes place on my own person and body, or if I am handling a boy whom I transform literally from the outside in. No that is not a confusion of a quote or phrase. With guys it is often from the outside in, where for women it is from the inside out.

The fabulous Goddess is always inside of me already, but by putting on my makeup, my wigs, my corsets, my stockings, my heels etc I transform the everyday woman into the Goddess who lives inside of me all times.

When I take a boy and put him into female clothing in order to turn him into a sissy or panty slut, I have to work from the outside in. The transformation starts with the outside, the clothing, the makeup, the wigs etc and only after I have achieved the look on him that I want can I now work on the inside of this little piece of raw clay and transform his mind via manipulation and training.

One of the things I have always respected in all the Drag Queens I have ever seen and the ones I had the honor to befriend personally was that they had no body image problems. They never use an imperfection of any kind as an excuse not to be fabulous and to feel hot. They have learned via their skills, talent and attitude to take something that is one way and turn it into the completly opposite.
Their courage to walk out on the stage, the street, the runway etc is fantastic and their attitude is amazing. I have seen Drag Queens who were easily 3 times my size get dressed up as one big Mama and rock it all the way.

Years and years ago I had a really good friend who was a size 28 female clothing Drag Queen. ONe big ole Bitch (bodywise) and boy did she get a lot of shit in her male persona. Yes boys so many of you are even cruel to your own gender, which I find disgusting by the way. When she dressed up so she owned that stage and I mean owned it.
She wasn't a spring chicken either. Nope Miss Thing was 45 years old! Do you think she ever felt "less" than other Queens because of her size or age? Do you think she ever let the younger, "hotter" Queens push her out of the limelight? Hell fucking no!

I made the mistake one time and one time only with her and told her that I felt as if I was getting old and that I felt as if I was just not even in the running because of my weight and age anymore. Remember this is years ago. LOL.
Big Momma stood her jiggly ass up, hands on hips and read me the riot act. She asked me if I was sniffing too much glue or if I was just in general out of my ever loving mind. She told me.... Honey you are beautiful, talented, fierce and you know what you want. Your accent makes me want to cream my panties and damn it I am gay. When you walk into a room you have that aura of "I own that damn puppy motherfuckers!" Even when your fashion sense let's you down once in a while you find a way of totally rocking what you have out, simply because it is on you and your confidence when you wear it is always top notch. Yup you are a bigger Goddess, but who cares? Yup you are going to get older, but guess what so are all the other women around you. You got experience Missy Ma'am, you can take Masters and make them submit, I watched you do it over and over again. I have watched you take gay guys and turn them bi for you. Hell I'd bend over for your strapon bitch. So don't you ever let me hear you whine again. Doubting yourself or whining doesn't become you!"

Talking about a pep-talk that went down in history for me. The irony of a man in a dress who was gayer than a 3 Dollar bill, whom I could hide behind and get some serious shade from and who was at that point almost old enough to be a Momma has never left me. Let me tell you something Ladies if you want to learn what being fierce is all about, you befriend a couple of Drag Queens. Their asses will make you fierce.

Now here I am years later. 42 years old, being still one of the bigger Goddesses and I always will be, and more and more it seems like financial domination is becoming a younger women's fetish. I said it seems like because I am here to tell you that some of older Mistresses and some of our golden Ladies can still rock it to the point that your head spins and you wonder what freight train just hit you.

I was asked some really rude questions by a few smartass little puckheaded boys and even a few teenie popper girlies over the last few weeks and one of those questions was. "So how does it feel to be a has been?"

You know it takes a really foolish person to ask anyone that sort of question, but it takes a serious retard to ask me. My response was instant and without thought. "I have no idea darling, but when I am on my deathbed I am sure to tell you." That of course is if I can still find her and dig her back up. Because I will be around long after some of the others have been long forgotten. *Strikes a pose and preens herself, than chuckles and sticks out her tongue!"

As one of my best friends would say. "Honey might boobs may start to sag, my ass may have a few extra pounds, and I might get some gray hairs, but my mind is top notch, my hands work just fine and my boots are still ready to walk all over you!"

So here is to ALL Of us Ladies no matter what age we are. WE are women, superior creations and Goddesses with sass, style, class and we are all fierce and fabulous. Only you can allow yourself to feel down and only you can put yourself out to the pasture. Sure as hell ain't no Bitch, no little boy who needs schooling, or any other dipshit going to tell me or should be able to tell you when it is time to quit.

As RuPaul would say... If you can't love yourself, how the hell can you love anyone else? Can I get an AMEN up in here?

*winks*

Mother's Day

nsub123 — Thu, 10 May 2012 01:33:30 +0000

Hello everyone,

i hope everyone has had a good week and hope you will have a good weekend. i hope you can spend time with your Mom's and i hope all the Mom's out there have the most fantastic day as you truly are special

i am quite sad with Mother's day coming along here on Sunday as this will be the first Mother's day without my Mom. She was a very special lady and Mom that i loved very much. In a lot of ways she was very different than me but our relationship was great and was especially great i would say the last 5 years as we spent more together going to movies and visiting, etc. That was special because she liked to travel so much to visit her grand children and other fun things that she enjoyed. i miss her very much but i was so happy that she enjoyed her retirement years. i know she got depressed like me so we had that in common very much.

i am not sure what i am going to do to take my mind off her this weekend but i guess i will try and do what i did last weekend and that is to do a lot of cleaning/re-organizing of my house to get it looking just like she would like it. my Mom had many comments about my house that i should fix this, fix that, put this here, do this. Sometimes i felt she was too critical and it hurt my feelings but i did file all that away and i have been trying to do all those things she said even though is kind of hard because of how shy i am. i just do not like to meet people, go out, call people, etc. For example, i have needed a dryer for years and if she knew i did not have one she would have gone berserk lol but i am very shy and would have a lot of excuses why not to get one. i thought the outlet did not work so i thought well would have to get electrician to fix before i can get dryer. i would think well what to do with the old dryer that does not work. i would think well they are too expensive and do not want to go talk to someone about a dryer. Anyway, in general i normally just wait for things to fall in my lap or for people to help me out and funny thing is the new dryer did fall in my lap lol. Someone i knew wanted to get rid of one and she knew i needed one so presto i know have. i really like it. i got my little doggy in a similar fashing (through a friend that i knew).

i got an entertainment center for my living room, desk for my guest room, air bed for my guest room, table for my living room, and a TV stand for my bedroom. i cleaned up, organized and the house looks great and i am sure my Mom would be proud. i wish she were here to talk too but i guess i have to live in reality so the next best thing is to do what she wanted and to make her proud of me. i am sure she was proud of me already but you know what i mean, make her more proud.

i did all the spring cleaning this weekend and had an accident in kitchen when i moved things to bookshelf and it came crashing down and broke to pieces. It was very bad workmanship by previous owner as another of the kitchen cabinets where the dishes are fell too a few years ago. i was in shock but just cleaned it up and they are coming to replace tomorrow. i hate to spend that kind of money but have to get it fixed. my Mom would not want me to have a bare ugly wall like it looks now lol but otherwise house looks great.

Anyway, i am very sorry for such a long blog and if you got this far you deserve a medal!

i wish all a very happy week, weekend and Mother's day! Moms are the best

Take care of yourself,

pepsi

Kinko de Mayhem Fetish Party + Kinkbomb Clips

lexie — Thu, 10 May 2012 00:55:54 +0000

This weekend was a fucking blast! I went to the Hellbound fetish party, Kinko de Mayhem at a local goth/industrial club in Detroit. I got decked out in My hottest cyberpunk outfit and met a bunch of really awesome fetishy people! Including a fun returning favorite – My doormat! You may remember him from My post about the foot fetish party I was invited to entitled Sexy Feet & a Hot Tribute.

Well he was at Hellbound last night, and he predictably laid down for Me again. I look so silly dressed in My Cyberpunk outfit standing on a human doormat lol! I wish I had My better camera, but all I brought was My cellphone so the pic is a little grainy. Check out My site in order to get a better look! http://www.mistresskiarasdungeon.com

In other news, I checked with Kinkbomb again, and they seem to have updated their policies for the better. I’ve started to re-add My clips to Kinkbomb after a year of boycotting them. What can I say? People change, and so do businesses, and they definitely offer a higher percentage for each clip sale than clips4sale. Because of this, My clip prices at Kinkbomb will be the same as My clip prices at Clipvia – which is usually at least $1 cheaper than clips4sale.

So now your job, My pet, is to get Me on the top 50 list for Kinkbomb! Shouldn’t be too hard since I’ll be uploading around 3 clips a day there when possible. So get your asses over to My studio and buy all My sexy clips, freak! http://www.kinkbomb.com/studio/dominakiara

Conditioned

paganking — Wed, 09 May 2012 22:22:56 +0000

Monday i watched the movie Transformer 2 the revenge of the fallen on tv. I was in the living room and watched tv with my gf. I know it's not a great movie but i like blockbuster movie. All was good till the 33th minutes of the movie. At this time, the guy go in a party with his friends and when they are in the club, Y/you can heard music. I was sit quietly in my sofa, but when i hear the song, my mind changed.

It's exactly the same song The Exquisite Goddess Arrion used in one of her great videos. Some of You/you already know that i'm totally addicted to this so wonderful Goddess. So it's not neccessary to say that i watched and still watch her videos a lot of time.

When i heard the music in the movie, i immediatly recognize it. I'm sure my face changed and i hope my gf didn't noticed it. My heart gone beat harder. A big smile came naturally on my face and even if i can't see them, i'm sure my eyes began shining.

After this moment my mind was totally disconnected from the movie. The only things running in my head was the images of The Exquisite Goddess Arrion video. I really wanted to go on my lappy and watch the video once again, but my gf was with me, so not possible to do it. I stay in front of the movie till the end trying to concentrate on the story. But nothing to do. It was absolutly impossible for me to resist. The video of The Exquisite Goddess Arrion ran and ran and ran again in my head.

At the end of the movie, my gf gone to bed. I immediatly put my lappy on and watched The Exquisite Goddess Arrion movie several times. She is so beautiful and so perfect. I was in heaven.

This was a strange experience for me. I knew i was totally addicted to Goddess Arrion. But i haven't yet realised how much brainwashed i was by this amazing Goddess. Just some notes of music are enough to put my brain off and make me think to only one thing, HER ! Some notes of music are enough to put me on a irristible desire to watch her video. I felt like a junky which need his drug. I'm sure i would not have been able to go to fall asleep without watching her video previously.

This prove how much Goddess Arrion rules my life. How much i am conditionned by Her. and it made me realise how much i need Her, how much i'm nothing without Her.

Thank You so much Goddess Arrion to allow to serve You. Thank You so much to rule my life. And thank You so much to condition me as a zombie.

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH !!!

Where losing your money never felt so good !!!

Fatso — Sun, 06 May 2012 22:38:58 +0000

I'm sure W/we all remember the watchword of MFDS. It is quite exciting. But i don't agree with it.

I'm on MFDS since a long time now but i never had the feeling to lose my money here. I don't lose my money when i aid my membership cause this site is the best Financial Domme site ever. There is a great community of famous Goddesses and a lot of them participate to the site. There is also several good slaves and boys which keep activity here.

But all above i don't feel i lose my money when i give it to my Owner, The Exquisite Goddess Arrion. For me tributing to a Goddess is not lose money. In my opinion you don't lose your money when you use it to please a Women even more when this Women is a Goddess.

There is no better way to use your money than to put a smile a on Goddess face. Making a Goddess happy is priceless. Make Her like easier and better is priceless. Spoiling a Goddess is priceless.

Each time i send my weekly tribute i'm happy. Each time i buy on Goddess Arrion wishlist, i'm happy. I'm happy cause i know She is happy.

So i never felt losing my money here.

I think the watchword of MFDS sould be:

"Where pleasing a Goddess with your money never felt so good !!!"

but maybe it's little too long, lmao !!!!!

Epic updates and Birthday

Jennelle — Sun, 06 May 2012 22:07:40 +0000

Hello Ladies boy's and My zombie followers.Hope you all have had a fabulous week and weekend.

Been a little busy the past cple weeks, but good kind of a busy.

As every one knows I had a birthday that just passed.Was a fabulous day.To All those wandering Yes I did turn 40 and I'm rather proud of it,I look damn good and no where near My age, thank goodness for great genes .I think woman should be proud of their age and not lie about it as so many do, in what we do so many think this is for the younguns only to to play in ,it so is not, it's for every age (legal that is)and its a mark of wisdom and prestige and we should be proud of it not hide from it as many do.

I did get tons of gifts and cash for My birthday and random gifts from random boys and still have more things coming in.

cucky bless his little heart had been saving since My last birthday and sent Me a $1000 which was a huge surprise and made me cry( a god kind of cry),he also bought Me some xbox games,dress,panties,lingere and also sent Me flowers as well.

pepsi bless his heart as well had a custom bear for Me , his heart beats, he is so cute ,he also sent Me a shirt corset,pinstriped pants,socks and hot pair of leggings and a xbox game thats awesome cause it makes me jump Silent Hill rocks lol.

shoeboy bought Me something Ive been lusting after for a bit , a kindle fire, it is EPICNESS.

other things, more xbox games,more xbox games, laptop,cash,more leggings, more cash more xbox games cant have enough xbox games bwahahahaahh .Thank you to those who made this day so special and rewarding.

cucky and I spent some time together over the weekend making war on galaxy life, lmao was too funny we were taking turns ass raping peoples planets.We make a good team lol and we were laughing the whole time we were doing it lol,

Moving on lol

I have a legging/thigh boy position open...I have a fetish for tight leggings and thigh highs for My gorgeous long legs and GREAT ass, boy or boy's get rewarded with pictures and items.

I will add more later of a session Amber and Myself did.Need coffee right now

Spending your money never felt so orgasmic www.EliteGoddesses.com

Exciting New Things!

PayPrincess — Thu, 03 May 2012 01:09:40 +0000

Well hello there everyone. I have been away for quite sometime now! Hmmm where to start. Well I have started a lovely new site with ExquisiteGoddessArrion. We are still working on it and adding new things to it everyday! We also have a another Lady joining in June. Want to know who She is? Well you are going to have to wait until June to find out. So puppets make sure you give Her an Awesome Welcome to the site! On the site you can find Goddess Arrion and My Clipvia, Niteflirt, Talksugar, Clip4sale, and other sites you can talk to Us on or buy our content. If you are to lazy to do all that then you can be lazy fucks and go to Our wank shop. It has things We have for sell there but not as much. The site also lets you know about our interest and when We will be doing sessions. Sometime We will do a session and not post it so if you are looking for a session with one or both of Us you will have to Contact Us. Make sure you check out Our chat room and Our position page. It will let you know what We are looking for you have the option to serve one of Us or both. Which is why We have a application page if you are interested in serving then fill out an ap and send it. We will get to you as soon as We can.

Clips, Clips, And more Clips!! I have decided I will be doing a few clips a week. I forgot how fun they are to make!! I have added new clips to all My clip stores such as Clips4sale, Kinkbomb, and Clipvia. The buttons are all on The Elite Goddess site. I am nice enough to give you a pic of a few Vids I have done with Myself and with Goddess Arrion.

So today I was pretty bored so I thought hey I want to play a few games on yahoo. None of My gaming boys were on but one of My dear sweet slingshot popped on yahoo. And I thought " Hmmm he'll game with Me!" So I snatched little slingshot up and after a few games he had this in his blog...

Gaming Humiliation
by Slingshot
Ebony Goddess Amber just challenged me to a few games of the online game Swapper, as She was bored. Of course i was delighted to be given this rare opportunity to spend time with such a fabulous and gorgeous Goddess. My delight was short lived as I was well and truely humiliated by a score of 21-1. All the while i was being laughed at and mocked for my lack of gaming prowess and just generally being a total loser. When i complained about being mocked, She correctly told me to stop whining as She knew i was loving it. Goddess then revealed She only let me win 1 game out of pity, and to let me see what winning was like for once. For losing so many games in a row Goddess decided i should be banned from wearing thongs for a week. To complete my humiliation I then had to pay Her the agreed losers fee.
Thank You Goddess.

Yeah he fucking sucked.. he sucked like a $5.00 crack head sucking cock for a bag of crack!!! I whooped his ass like I was a drunk abusive husband coming home with no dinner on the table!! Haha! Yeah I went there!!!! Want to try your luck? Think you got what it takes to beat Me at M own game? Contact Me!

EbonyGoddessAmber

Site Update & New Clips!

pete3 — Wed, 02 May 2012 23:29:34 +0000

That’s right freaks – I’ve finally got My site updated! What do you think of it? I know you love it. Be sure to leave a comment on this blog and tell Me how MUCH you love it though, a girl never gets tired of compliments…

Do you know what else your cash Princess never gets tired of? Tributes. Taxes were due yesterday, which means I expect a lot of My money slaves to be spending BIG when returns come in! Of course, I expect you to spend big all year ’round…

I think you’ll find that the new site captures your money Mistress’s character better. I am a brat bitch Princess, an the old theme seemed to downplay that aspect of My personality. This new femdom website that you are enjoying right now is also far more efficient. There are still a few ‘in progress’ pages, but the new theme makes it so easy on your cash Princess I’m sure they will be finished within the month.

So what are you waiting for? Take a look around, and pay special attention to the tributes and sales pages. Some of you have been slacking off, and you know the penalty for stopping tributes, don’t you? It’s the same with your cash Princess as it is with every spoiled brat – when My toys break, I throw them out and get new ones lol!

Gaming Humiliation

Blonde_Demonatrix — Wed, 02 May 2012 23:26:41 +0000

Ebony Goddess Amber just challenged me to a few games of the online game Swapper, as She was bored. Of course i was delighted to be given this rare opportunity to spend time with such a fabulous and gorgeous Goddess. My delight was short lived as I was well and truely humiliated by a score of 21-1. All the while i was being laughed at and mocked for my lack of gaming prowess and just generally being a total loser. When i complained about being mocked, She correctly told me to stop whining as She knew i was loving it. Goddess then revealed She only let me win 1 game out of pity, and to let me see what winning was like for once. For losing so many games in a row Goddess decided i should be banned from wearing thongs for a week. To complete my humiliation I then had to pay Her the agreed losers fee.
Thank You Goddess.

Epic fails and other thoughts

MadameLoli — Wed, 02 May 2012 20:01:53 +0000

Hello everyone and thanks for stopping by! Take a seat - wait go to the restroom first just in case, because some of this might make you laugh and other things might just make you want to puke the way it almost does me. I said almost, not fully there yet, but they sure are working on it!

So as you saw by the title of this post today is a "What the fuck" day filled with some serious epic fails. It never fails to amaze me just how stupid some people can be. You would think that when you become an adult you would have at least some brains in your head, but as always I stand corrected. Obviously that is not a requirement anymore these days.

Let me start with the epic fails for the day:

Why the hell would you sent an unsolicited photo of your naked pecker to a Mistress? I mean are you really that hard up for attention, or are you under the impression that looking at your shrimp dick is going to throw her either in a fit of giggles or into a swoon? If I ask in an assignment for a photo of your dicklet it usually has some sort of humiliation attached to it. Meaning I am making you do some fucked up shit to your extra skin between your legs. I don't want to see your lame ass naked pecker unless that assignment is completed. I think I have seen enough peckers in my life that looking at yours is about as exciting as going to take out the trash. BORING!!! Buy a clue - no better yet - get a life! NOBODY - wants to look at your dick.

If I consider you my friend or I mentor you don't you think it is a really bad idea to lie to me? I do not enjoy being lied to by ANYONE and if it costs my boys their position if I find out you can be damn tooting that it will cause you my friendship and the honor of being mentored by me if you as a fellow Lady do it. Think before you open your mouth and consider the consequences. Enough said.

How in hades do the Titles "Mistress, Ma'am, Queen or Goddess" give you the impression that the woman carrying those titles would appreciate even for a second being called "Babe?" I know I am fat to some of you, but I am not "BABE" the Pig from the Movie nor am I a Babe as in a young child, nor am I your BABE period. For heaven's sake not even my husband is that disrespectful to me.

When you contact a financial Domme or any Domme for that fact doesn't it stand to reason you mind your manners a bit and not talk over her? When has correcting a Mistress in a very rude manner or in a self righteous little prick attitude become acceptable? Did someone forget to send me the Memo? I would appreciate being kept in the loop here!

Oh and when you are serving someone and an order is issued to you, don't be one bit surprised if you go on the shit list if your response is ... "I am not in the mood right now!" That is a mistake not even a beginner should make! First time is ignore for an extended period - 2nd time is lifetime banishment period!

Boys and fellow Ladies when you are part of an online community you are held accountable to the courtesy rules and unspoken rules of said community. They are all common sense! Common as in everyone can understand them. Again being new is not an excuse anymore. There is enough written out there by now to give you at least a little bit of information. So how about you start educating yourself before jumping and doing something really fucked up that will get you banned? Rules are created for a reason! They are there to keep things run smoothly! I know as a Mistress we run our own show, but there are still some things that are just not ok.

If you promise a tribute to a Mistress you better damn well get it done! Nobody likes liars! Nobody wants to deal with them. Never tell me you have tributed to me before, spoken to me on Niteflirt etc to use it as an excuse to talk to me for a little while for free. I remember everyone who has done so and I do have lists as well. Don't be stupid!

If you are under 18 Years of age you are considered jailbait! It is ILLEGAL to deal with minors in any sexual fashion or to include them into any sort of fetish activities. NEVER and I mean NEVER claim to be over 18 if you are not. A smart Mistress who feels as if you are under age will demand to see identification as in your ID. If you ever try to pull that stunt on me I will contact your Momma and tell her what an idiot you are. I am sure she might get mad at me for a couple of minutes but your ass will be in a lot more trouble.

Now those were the epic fails for today and sadly they are becoming the norm online these days. Not amusing!

Moving on to some thoughts.

I am having a real hard time being motivated today. The epic fails I typed out happened today as soon as I woke up and came online. That is not a good way to start your day off let me assure you. We always say don't draw attention to negative things and bitching about things don't help. That may be true, but it is also true that if we don't bring it to the light people continue to think that such behavior is ok or that they are slick. Neither is true.

Financial Domination in general has a bad enough reputation among the fetish world and BDSM crowd as is. Entirely too many people look down on those participating in this fetish because it is so hard for them to understand. Not to mention that is becoming more and more overrun by people who shouldn't be involved in it at all. Simply because they really have no clue or scrubbles at all. I have spent the last 3 almost 4 years trying to educate people about our fetish without being a pompous ass about it. I have broken it down so that even those having a hard time reading and understanding English can understand it. I have tried not to pass judgement on others, but see if from the eyes of those who are just learning. If I wouldn't love our fetish so much, I wouldn't have done that.

I have been asked often enough why I am creating competition for myself and I have always answered it the same way. I am not creating competition for myself, but am giving people the basic understanding they need to not fuck our fetish up even more. If we want this fetish to survive we do need new people coming into it to carry on when we are gone. I would much rather those people to have some sort of education about it, than none at all and try to wing it.

Bluntly spoken, the pool of financial submissives truly seeking to submit to a Money Mistress is becoming smaller and smaller these days. So many of the guys joining communities are full of .... and are just there for free entertainment and because they are bored. We have more "clients" wanting to purchase a service these days, than we have submissives even understanding what serving someone means. I can only lead the horse to water, I can't force it to drink. That being said, we can't afford to have new Mistresses coming in and completely ignoring even the basic of courtesy rules between women. WE can't afford to have more scams and mass emails being done. We as a group can not afford even more bad reputation for our fetish.

This is not a fad, evenso it has turned into it largely. For many of us it is a lifestyle. You can be a lifestyle findom and not stop being human. You can be a lifestyle findom and still be an Adult Business Owner. YOu can be a lot of things combined with financial domination, but you can't be an idiot who can't tell her head from her ass.

Ever so often I get criticized about some grammar or spelling error I might make. Fact is that English is still my second language even so I have opted to speak it as my only language for years now. Fact is that when I become passionate about something I don't always pay as much attention to what I am typing out as I should, but it is still a lot better than the stupid internet dipshit speak 80% do these days. Maybe instead of trying to find fault with the spelling and grammar you would be better served to pay attention to the content of the post. I write demand posts from time to time, but most of the time the blogs I write offer a lot of insight and education for those who still need and seek it.

Being a real time Mistress for many years doesn't assure you know what you are doing once you come to the online world. Those are like two different planets. Don't I know it! I had to undergo it myself about 8 years ago now. It was a horrible experience at first. A lot of we try to say is lost in translation since people can't see our facial expression or body language.

Some people have the hardest time expressing themself in writing. Many hide behind words they read somewhere else and are just parroting back at you. None of this is great.

Online only boys don't understand while real time Mistresses hold to some basic courtesy protocols when it comes to interacting with owned boys. They think we are trying to take their voice away. We aren't doing that at all. Instead we are trying to uphold some standards we were taught while in training when we began ourself in real time.

Some of us - including me - have been formally trained in real time before we ever took a title. We had to earn our title. That is a concept that is being lost a lot these days.

Owned boys have a voice and it is an important voice to hear. There is a place for it so. If you are in a community that place is in blog posts, in forums etc. When a Mistress visits your profile back because you have looked on hers and she notices that you are owned it is not a slide to you when she mentions and sends your Mistress a greeting. It is the honorable thing to do they way we were taught. Too many owned boys slut around behind their Mistress back and yes I admit we are leery of the visits on our profiles. Do you have any idea of how quickly we can be labeled as something we are not if we don't behave in an acceptable manner? Some of us treasure our reputations. I do.

Owned boys have a big function in communities. That function is to stand as wonderful examples of what boys should act and behave like. They represent their Ladies. Please do speak up, post, educate the other boys. Educate some of the newer Mistresses in a polite way. Remember so that you will be treated with the courtesy that is due your Mistress and you as well. So instead of being offended see it as a compliment.

Ok enough for today. I still feel no more motivated than I did a bit ago. Perhaps it is time I see some appreciation today instead of nothing but idiot behavior.

The Goddess Bella Donna